Polarities

For this great adventure the love energy of Great Mystery has created its opposite for us. Our choices, thoughts, opportunities and experiences all take place between love and fear. These opposites are perfectly balanced and we create our path of life between them. These are the polarities of our earthly life. In our story we come to these polarities because, without contrast there is no experience.

For example, when there is light there must be dark otherwise there is no experience of either.  Love needs fear and visa versa. We cannot experience love until we experience fear (you could say the absence of love) . It is unfortunately necessary to have some degree of fear so that we learn how to emerge from it into that love that we desire. The more we can move towards love, the more we will be in the present moment, and that is the experience which is something we do not always understand because it is fleeting but it is joyous.
You cannot hold onto it because it is in the present moment, then you’re on to the next moment and something else is happening. The effects or the glow may flow on a bit longer,without getting bogged down in, ‘Oh I’m thinking this’ or ”I’m thinking that’. It is happening automatically. We can begin to move from our mind to our heart by beginning to think more positive loving thoughts.  (Mindfulness tool helps here)
The more we can feel and experience, the clearer will be our desire and the more we can create in the way that we want  it to be. The power to achieve this is in our feelings, the ‘heart centre’. When we are being joyful and guiding our thoughts with love we are more able to create what we wish. This is not easy because we still live between those polarities.
Fear will arise
We may guide ourself into our heart centre and think only love but there will be times when it will become fear again because we have these little uncertainties, these little feelings of inadequacy. 
Our power is in joy
We need to be aware that our real power is in our joy. The moment we feel afraid or vulnerable we can use this power by changing our attitude. Replace the fear with joyfulness.